I don't know if it's the same woman who's said it several times, or different women. I don't know if it's a weird, back-handed compliment or if it's a genuine complaint. I don't know if it's a clumsy but well-meaning way to try to initiate conversation with a new-comer.
I have no idea how to respond to that comment, so I usually don't. I usually act as if I didn't hear. But it always leave me in a quandary: Do I take a lazy approach to working out so that I don't offend those who cannot expend as much effort as I
Someone said it to me again last month. One or two minutes before my brain aneurysm ruptured.
I've wondered several times what she thought when I collapsed and they called 911 and the paramedics rushed up with the ambulance. Was she horrified at her comment? Did she think, "Serves her right, the show-off"?
Maybe God in His grace caused her to not even remember that she said it.
Best construction: the people saying that are impressed by your effort and are trying to engage in some good-natured teasing. My advice (for what it's worth) is to smile and shrug and keep doing what you're doing (once you get back to the gym, that is).
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