Elad Nehorai writes that he didn't love his wife when they were married. It is a most-excellent article about what love IS, and how selfish it is to "be in love," and even touches on Disney movies.
A couple of quotes:
Marriage started sucking away that emotion. I tried so hard to keep that fire going, to keep that emotion alight, but it got harder and harder. I mean, how you can feel that burning love when you're sitting at the
table discussing how to use the last $20 in your bank account?
Through giving, through doing things for my wife, the emotion that I had
been so desperately seeking naturally came about. It wasn't something I
could force, just something that would come about as a result of my
giving.
Megan, thanks for pointing out the article.
Other people, go read it.
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
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